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Most psychotherapy is based on the premise or
assumption that there is something “wrong” with the
client or patient – that the client or patient has a
“mental illness.”
Healthy coaching is only for people who are ready to
take responsibility for their own mental, emotional,
and behavioral health or who want to be coached in
that direction. We coach people towards greater
mental and emotional health in the same spirit as a
professional coach might coach an Olympic athlete
towards greater and greater athletic performance.
At healthy coaching we believe that most everyone
with basic cognitive and communication abilities can
improve his or her mental and emotional health if he
or she puts his/her attention on it.
Most psychotherapy is (1) centered around a specific
school or method of treatment, such as
psychoanalysis, cognitive-behavioral therapy,
gestalt therapy, narrative therapy,
etc. (there are reportedly over 400 different
schools or “brands” of psychotherapy) and (2)
involves some level of (or attention to) diagnosing
the client/patient’s specific mental illness or
illnesses (i.e. what’s WRONG with the client or
patient).
At
healthy coaching we offer no diagnosing
or treatment, and we’ll even discourage you from
self-diagnosis.
We believe that you are ultimately the person most
qualified to be the expert on yourself. Our
coaching is designed to help empower your
self-understanding and self-confidence in being a
more effective expert on yourself and in your life.
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If
you are interested in exploring psychotherapy as an
avenue to greater mental, emotional, behavioral
health, we can help you find the best therapist for
you and we can coach you to have the most effective
therapy experience. We offer a separate
TherapistMatch® program based upon therapy
effectiveness research.
There is substantial research calling into
question the reliability, validity,
relevance, and usefulness of the diagnosis
of mental disorders. See Duncan, Miller &
Sparks, (2004) The Heroic Client,
Jossey-Bass, pgs.23-30.
The research of Carol S. Dweck, as
summarized in her book, Self-Theories:
Their Role in Motivation, Personality and
Development (1999) Psychology Press,
strongly indicates that categorizing
ourselves as being a “certain way” or having
certain fixed, unalterable traits (i.e.
“self-diagnosing” ourselves), whether good
or bad, is a recipe for creating frustration
and avoidance and giving up in the face of
failure, difficulties or tasks/situations
that require effort.
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